by Beppe » Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:17 pm
Occasional drinking, smoking, drug taking cannot do you harm at all (chemical shit like ecstasy could anyway).
BUT...
How much is occasional? How much is once in a while? To keep yourself clean I think it's easier to cut them all completely. That's why: let's say you decide to have a smoke of grass once in a while (months, weeks, days, hours?). So you basically do drugs. Sometimes but you do. So if the occasion comes, even if you planned perfectly to have it just the first saturday of every other month, if an extra occasion comes you take it. And that's not predictable. Friends ask you, they know you do, and you say "why not?". This happens once, twice, until you can't really say that you're not doing too much drugs. That is even worse with "regular" cigarettes. I've been there, I have tried quitting many times, since I discovered how it works (with some help from Mr. Allen Carr, RIP) and happily quit completely. Sometimes cravings come: I'm nervous, I'm relaxed, I'm whatever... it was normal at the times to light a cigarette. Now I know that a single cigarette could bring me back to that pack and half a day nightmare, and I cut the thought out. Friends ask you to do drugs? You don't have to ask yourself if a safe amount of time has passed since last time. You know that you simply don't do that stuff. Simple. No doubts. The demon that wants you to be weak gets fed by doubts. He'll always tell you that you're not doing too much stuff. But when you know that you don't do shit at all: that's simple.
Simple, not easy. Example: I'm completely teatotaler. I'm not a crusader, so no problem with other people drinking. But they always have problems with me. People I know since years still ask me if I want a beer, a shot, a glass of whatever. Answering NO all the time can be annoying, but even with all this social pressure it becomes an habit. Sometimes you get pearls of wisdom like a co-worker gave me the other day: "you don't smoke, you don't drink, you don't take stuff, so for what do you live for?". I know for what I live. Plenty of things, there is literally not enough time to do them all. No room left for drugs. I want to be here all the time.
Going against social pressure isn't easy at all, but I suppose on this board people come to become stronger, isn't it?