by danangeles on Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:53 pm
That sucks bro.
Some guys are encouraging, one guy here is acting like a dick, but hes partially right. He said youre on here acting hard but I think hes just got somehting up his ass. You said youre intimidated, thats not acting hard to me. Just being honest.
Heres my take.
These guys are HUGE, right? Well, Im sure theyre really tough seeing how theyre picking on the weak scrawny guy at the gym. Theyre not picking on one of the guys that weighs 265lbs, and squats 500lbs 5x5. Kinda tells you a little about them, doesnt it?
I wouldnt say anything to them, and by not saying anything doesnt mean you dont have balls. If these guys are as insecure as I think they are, they will kick your ass if you call them out......so avoid that.
You can stand up for yourself though. Just tell them you are scrawny, and thats why your there. Its hard to make fun of a guy that admits the point youre tryign to make.
The best bet is to just be the bigger man (even though your smaller) and ignore it.
The beaner thing pisses me off seeing how Im mexican american myself, but hey....who cares what a biggot thinks, right?
This program will help boost your strength and confidence, and they will notice it soon enough. Only the insecure guys will make fun of you, bc what they have that you dont makes them feel better about themselves. The guys that are secure will encourage you and help get you to where they are.....
Use this as motivation and lift!
If you feel like youre in danger, either bring it up to the staff or go to another gym.
Peace
Dan