Help: Cut contact with a girl and really regret it. Dating.

[rabienrose90]

wow, this is kind of what I am going through with an ex GF at the moment and reading though all your guys post actually make me want to smack myself for being such a turd sandwich and clinging to the idea of her. Its good to know I'm not alone or not the only one who has gone through this BS lol. Thanks alot, i actually feel alot better now = )

[Trifin]

wow, this is kind of what I am going through with an ex GF at the moment and reading though all your guys post actually make me want to smack myself for being such a turd sandwich and clinging to the idea of her. Its good to know I'm not alone or not the only one who has gone through this BS lol. Thanks alot, i actually feel alot better now = )

We've all been there. We've all had "one-itis" at some point in our lives. The truth of the matter is that you can change your paradigm and adapt so that you'll never have to deal with these feelings ever again.

If you get a chance, go to www.laddertheory.com and read everything. Most of it's pretty funny, but it's also very true.

[Tmv]

wow, this is kind of what I am going through with an ex GF at the moment and reading though all your guys post actually make me want to smack myself for being such a turd sandwich and clinging to the idea of her. Its good to know I'm not alone or not the only one who has gone through this BS lol. Thanks alot, i actually feel alot better now = )

We've all been there. We've all had "one-itis" at some point in our lives. The truth of the matter is that you can change your paradigm and adapt so that you'll never have to deal with these feelings ever again.

If you get a chance, go to http://www.laddertheory.com and read everything. Most of it's pretty funny, but it's also very true.

just read the ladder theory, funny, not informative though, I don't believe that's the way it works just a decent guess, but I do see where he's coming from.

[Trifin]

wow, this is kind of what I am going through with an ex GF at the moment and reading though all your guys post actually make me want to smack myself for being such a turd sandwich and clinging to the idea of her. Its good to know I'm not alone or not the only one who has gone through this BS lol. Thanks alot, i actually feel alot better now = )

We've all been there. We've all had "one-itis" at some point in our lives. The truth of the matter is that you can change your paradigm and adapt so that you'll never have to deal with these feelings ever again.

If you get a chance, go to http://www.laddertheory.com and read everything. Most of it's pretty funny, but it's also very true.

just read the ladder theory, funny, not informative though, I don't believe that's the way it works just a decent guess, but I do see where he's coming from.

Just curious as to what part you disagree with...

[Gringo]

Man, I also was one of those that cringed and said "Oh shit, WTF did he tell her" when you dumped her. Couldn't you have invented a more simple excuse? Like "it's just not working any more" or "i found someone else"? Even if you go on your separate ways, I'd still try to apoligize for that, even if she tells you to "FUCK OFF ASSHOLE" (her potential words, not mine). I'd feel better with myself.