I don't understand this girl

[fkx414]

So i don't understand this one girl. I knew her since the 2nd year of college. We had sex a couple of times that year but afterwards we became good friends during the rest of college with no sex or anything like that. Lost contact with her until recently. We met up and started hanging out strictly as friends. She ends up at my place and we went to sleep in my bed (no sex), just spooning and stuff. After that day, she calls me to hang out and we hang out when we have time (we both are very busy), I tried kissing her a couple of times but she would smile and turn her head away so that I couldn't kiss her. She would still hang out with me and stuff but seems like whenever i try to kiss her, she would not comply. Last time i tried to kiss her , she smiled and turned her head and she was like "i don't like exchanging saliva. I dont like mixing germs" However, she has slept over a couple of times ( no sex) in my bed and calls me right before she goes to sleep so that I can tell her a bed time story and stuff like that. I totally don't understand her. I confronted her about it. And she was like " i don't know.. don't ask me stuff like that". ...weird...

[thefinalsql]

Communication is the key. Seems like she is getting everything she wants and you are not. Play hard to get.

Maybe is having relationship issues with someone else and using you to comfort herself.

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[Trifin]

this chick is flaky. move on man...

[AbsoluteTom]

And she was like " i don't know.. don't ask me stuff like that". ...weird...

Red flag! It sounds like she is playing with you. Find a girl you can talk about anything with. Then you'll be happy!

[Trifin]

And she was like " i don't know.. don't ask me stuff like that". ...weird...

Red flag! It sounds like she is playing with you. Find a girl you can talk about anything with. Then you'll be happy!

Right on! This is a sign that the girl has some deep-rooted problems that haven't even manifested to the fullest yet. I've dealt with kind of thing before. The only answer is to get out while the gettin' is good!

And BTW, don't put the pussy on a pedestal...

[Mehdi]

Guys, keep it respectful, girls aren't evil and they only can "play with you" if you allow it. Lots of problems we have with girls, is our fault, not theirs. Take responsibility instead of blaming.

We met up and started hanging out strictly as friends.

If you want to be friends with her, then treat her exactly as you treat your male friends. If you want more: maybe she has someone else she has sex with so she doesn't with you, maybe she's not into you, maybe whatever. Don't lose your time on this.

I'd walk away.

[IceMan]

Last time i tried to kiss her , she smiled and turned her head and she was like "i don't like exchanging saliva. I dont like mixing germs" However, she has slept over a couple of times ( no sex) in my bed and calls me right before she goes to sleep so that I can tell her a bed time story and stuff like that.

Get this girl out of your head soon as possible and move on. She is just playing with you, and you're allowing her to treat you like a doormat. I think the sooner guys realize that there are plenty of other girls out there, the better.

[Wendy]

No more sleep overs in the same bed. She is playing with you. If you want her as a friend set some ground rules that keep YOU safe emotionally.

[pagangoddess]

I confronted her about it. And she was like " i don't know.. don't ask me stuff like that". ...weird...

If she can't communicate with you regarding this then I'd say it's best to walk away. It doesn't matter why she's doing it it only matters that there isn't openness between the 2 of you. That's the issue you need to deal with not whether you can understand her or not.

[TakeFive]

This chick wants to put you on reserve duty. If you sign up, be prepared to be called up.

[maui]

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[Trifin]

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