Hey Drummergee, what a nice surprise! Welcome back mate!
You are regarding the wrist/squat thing. In theory the bar should rest on the shoulder area, and the hand are there just to keep tabs on it, but I've been having a hell of trouble keeping the bar in place, I'm actually thinking on having some Velcro sewn to my shoulders and glued to the bar in hopes it will keep the bar in place,

. In the meantime I will experimant doing the OHP first and see how it goes.
And now to Today's WO.
Mondays, oh Mondays . . . so sluggish and miserable . . . Got to the gym with the honest intent on avoiding doing anything at all. It started "good" since there was this guy on the squat rack, so after 10 minutes of hard decission making I start setting the bench for the BP, but then the guy was done so went back to the squat rack and 25 minutes after I arrived to the gym I finally started the WO. Now, my laziness got me thinking: "OK. . . so you don't want to do anything, right? then why not add weight to the squat? This way you can blame the new weight for being such a Koala"
After all, the WO came out fine, very tired and skipping the Dips, but with a smile on my face.
Squat
1x5 with 43kg
1x5 with 61.6kg
5/5/5/5/5 with 121.4kg PR
YEY ! ! Sooooo pleased the 120 frontier has finally been taken! Playing mind games really worked out. All sets were hard, had to rest for a minute between sets and ended all drained, but got this babies,

I had a good grip on the third and fourth sets, the rest nope, specially the last one which gave a hard time with the bar (but I got to have a "soothing bar roll",

). Even with the bar slidding I kept the centre of gravity in check.
Bench Press
5/5/5/5/4 with 75.4kg
Spotter this time. I was pretty much done after the squats so I was not going to play stupid again. Rested for few minutes and started the BPs. All sets felt hard, but the spotter was a good sport and cheered me up to do the work. I like this guy, he's a trainer and is always looking for a chance to give some pointers.
Barbell Row
5/5/5/5/5 with 66.7kg
First fo all, I wrote a wrong number on the last BBR. I wish my lifts were at 75.4kg, but the correct weight is the above one.
Getting better at this thing. Good form, feeling all nice and tight. The last set a bit challenging, but I was not going to chicken out after having done all the previous ones.
I know you really, really want it Nefesh, but is not in anyone's best interest. Not even yours