I should chime in here with a bit of background and goal-setting.
I've always been stocky and heavy. I've been on diets before (incl. Atkins), and have managed to get my weight down, but it always came back. After my divorce, however, I ballooned up to a record high of 303lbs (Jan 1, 2007). The only time I've ever really been skinny was prior to joining the Army -- but that was due to starvation. I was eating once every two days, and I was going for the highest-carb, cheapest foods I could get at that point. I was 175lbs when I went into Army Basic Training.
In the Army, I maintained a healthy weight of 190-195 lbs, and was well-fed, and in much better shape. However, neither my training nor my eating was under my control, so I really had no idea what I was doing to maintain that.
On August 30, 2007, I decided a few things:
1) If I kept living the way I was, I was going to die early, and suffer health problems while I was alive (I'd already had my left ACL replaced).
2) Diets just don't work for me.
3) Good food is cheaper than the crap I'd been shoveling into my face.
So, I started keeping a daily log of everything I ate. I began "eating clean", even though I didn't know what that meant at the time. I started cooking for myself, stopped eating out, stopped snacking, stopped eating junk food, fast food, frozen food, and so on. Just doing that, and moderate cardio for 30 minutes, 3 times a week, I got down to 225 lbs.
In May, my company moved to a much larger office on a big multi-company campus, that includes free gym membership at an on-campus gym with a full set of free weights, a power rack, benches, etc. etc. etc. I decided to start going to the gym 3x/week, but I didn't know what I was doing. So, I just played around on the machines. I managed to build a bit of strength...I'd been so sedentary, any effort at all was bound to produce some results.
Towards the end of June, I decided I'd learn how to use the free weights, and that's when I discovered -- and started following -- the Stronglifts 5x5 beginner program.
Since then, I've made massive strength improvements, and my body composition has visibly changed (though not measurably, since I only bought a set of calipers today, and my weights been fluctuating around 220 ever since). I've been trying to get my food intake balanced appropriately (40/40/20), and I've been forcing myself to eat 6-7x/day, even though I'm almost never hungry, except after workouts (before I started going to the gym, I'd typically eat between 900-1200 calories a day. For a guy my size, that's insane, in hindsight).
I've been fighting a mental battle with myself that I need to eat even more. I was still stuck in the mentality that if I ate more than 2000 calories a day, I'd get fat again. But for the past two weeks, I've been forcing myself to eat 16x my weight, and making sure I get enough protein. I don't always manage to get that many calories (I never imagined eating so many calories would be so HARD! But when it's good food, it's so dense that it's a chore to eat it), but I try to manage around 3000 a day.
I've also managed to completely eliminate not only diet soda, but all artificial sweetener. I used to drink 12 diet sodas a day. Now I drink about 4 liters of water every day. I had coffee with cream and sugar substitute. Now I have a cup or two of black coffee. I used to buy flavored yogurt. Now I buy plain yogurt and add fresh fruit. At this point, the only two foods that have any significant processing in them that I eat are my oatmeal (I use instant), and my bread (because I just don't have the time to bake my own).
My goals right now are to squat 400 lbs, bench 200 lbs, deadlift 500 lbs, and oh press 200 pounds. And to be able to knock out a series of 10 pullups with good form. I don't have any set body composition goals, because I figure if I can manage those, the body composition will take care of itself.
